This
quote came to me as I was sitting in my favorite coffeehouse writing spot (Cast
Iron Waffles), listening to the Coffeehouse satellite station (Into the Mystic by Van Morrison was
playing), and working on an upcoming keynote.
I
furiously typed it up hoping not to lose it before it leapt out of my mind
unable to be remembered. Know what I mean?
I
speak about creativity in my keynote presentations and I was trying to figure
out how to wrap it up nice and neat with a bow to get an “aha” moment from the
audience. I’ve learned while growing up and being earmarked as a “creative”
person, that there are whole loads of people who don’t think they are creative
beings.
Boy,
are they WRONG! Everyone is creative (quit shaking your head – yes, YOU, are
creative!) in some unique way - whether you are a chemist, engineer, farmer, marketer, or writer. But that’s another article. Right, Andy Horner?
Anyway,
this quote came as a result of this story:
I
wrote an article on Pinterest.
A
man, Tony Frank, emailed me with three things: praise, a Pinterest request, and
an offer:
“I own a small business that develops
custom cartoons to market ideas, most specifically gift planning to non-profit
fundraisers like myself. If you ever find yourself needing a cartoon to convey
an idea, lemme know. We'll work one up for ya, no charge. (www.lanceandrew.com)”
Hmmm…I
thought. And thought. And thought. For eight days before I replied:
“I just thought of a great way for you
to help me. I'm getting married in a few months and we are having an
adult’s only reception EXCEPT for my fiancé’s 10 nieces and nephews. I had been
planning on putting crayons and coloring books on their reception tables to
keep them entertained. But you know what would be even cooler? If you
could draw a black and white cartoon of my fiancé and I for them to color in
that day! It would be something we could keep.”
And
he did. And we used it. And it was a HIT!
Now
most people would have only saw it for face value (a cartoon to use for my
presentations) and stopped there. Most people think I have audacity for asking
for more than the favor offered. Most people are followers. Not me.
I was
presented an opportunity.
I
thought about it.
I formed
a vision.
I
asked.
I received.
And
they colored.
Do you
think Tony is upset that I asked for something a little different than he
originally presented to me? NO! He is now the inspiration of a quote, an
article, and the colorful joy of ten children.
Here
are the elements that I believe lead to creativity:
1. Think.
Taking the time to view anything from
another perspective can lead to a creative response. They don’t call it
thinking outside the box for no reason. Just drop the box, that doesn’t matter,
stretching your mind to think beyond the obvious, beyond what appears, is when
the light bulbs get invented. What are you thinking about?
2. Environment.
I think best in certain environments, usually coffeehouses. Shocker, I
know! I’m creative in these places for two reasons; they make me happy and they
eliminate distractions. The atmosphere boasts happiness: music, espresso
machines, milk being steamed, and the aroma of coffee and specifically where I
go, fresh baked liege waffles! The atmosphere omits distractions: television,
John, Dunkin! The hardest element is figuring out what atmosphere you need to
get your mind right for creative inspiration. Where is your distraction-free
happy place?
3. Confidence. You must have the confidence and willingness to
ask, to risk, and to open yourself up by sharing your ideas out loud. Many fear
rejection more than they seek reward. I like reward. I’m confident in my
thoughts and ideas REGARDLESS of others opinions of them. Some are nutty, some
are pushy, some are bitchy, some are genius, and some are all of the above. I’m
confident in asking for what I want (did you read Ask Kisser?) and I’m
confident enough to risk my feelings in an effort to be creative. How confident
are you in your ideas?
4.
Experience. The more creative ideas
you come up with the more they will continue to flow. Just like with any skill,
the more you work at it and experience it, the more it will come naturally. If
you hang around creative people they will rub off on you, they will inspire
you and they will transform you. How are you experiencing creativity?
Shh…my
very secret key to creativity is simple. Capture it! So often I don’t take the
time to write ideas or thoughts down when they occur. And then, in a fleeting
moment, they disappear. Thankfully, this one I caught and framed.
Want to see the fabulous cartoon by Lance Andrew? View it on my Sales Barista Facebook Page.
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